The Journey Journal

A space to pause, reflect, and explore what’s happening beneath the surface.

Here, you’ll find honest conversations, practical insights, and a little perspective on the things we all navigate—from stress and relationships to self-discovery, life transitions, mental health, and everything in between. Think of this as a place to learn, reflect, and maybe even see something in a new way.

Because your journey doesn’t have to be perfect to be worth exploring.

Stop Calling It “Boundaries”: The Double-Edged Sword of Therapy Jargon
Heather Herron Heather Herron

Stop Calling It “Boundaries”: The Double-Edged Sword of Therapy Jargon

“Setting boundaries” has become one of the internet’s favorite pieces of mental health advice—but are we always using the word correctly? While healthy boundaries can protect our well-being and strengthen relationships, they can sometimes become a convenient excuse for avoidance, ghosting, or simply opting out of uncomfortable conversations.

This post takes a closer look at the difference between self-protection and isolation, how to recognize when boundaries may be creating more disconnection, and how clarity, communication, and consistency can help us protect our peace without disappearing from the people we care about.

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The Anti-Resolution
Heather Herron Heather Herron

The Anti-Resolution

What if your New Year’s resolution wasn’t to completely reinvent yourself? Instead of setting massive goals that leave you feeling guilty by February, this post explores a more realistic approach to personal growth—one built around small shifts, self-trust, boundaries, and sustainable change.

From creating “white space” and building a minimum viable day to choosing an unconventional theme word and creating emotional playlists, discover practical ways to make meaningful changes without turning your life into another self-improvement project.

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How to Survive the Holidays (Without Losing Your Mind)
Heather Herron Heather Herron

How to Survive the Holidays (Without Losing Your Mind)

The holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year—but for many of us, they can also bring stress, family drama, packed schedules, and plenty of pressure to make everything “perfect.” The good news? You don’t have to grin and bear it until January.

From saying “no” and redefining traditions to embracing imperfection, unplugging from technology, and making time for yourself, this post shares 10 unconventional ways to protect your peace and actually enjoy the holiday season.

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Comfortably Numb? Obvious and Not-So-Obvious Signs of Not Feeling Your Feelings
Heather Herron Heather Herron

Comfortably Numb? Obvious and Not-So-Obvious Signs of Not Feeling Your Feelings

Sometimes we keep ourselves busy, distracted, or constantly entertained without realizing we’re using those things to avoid what we’re actually feeling. From endless scrolling and overworking to emotional eating, shopping, or staying constantly busy, this post explores the subtle ways we may be numbing ourselves—and how becoming more aware can help us reconnect with our emotions and live more fully.

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How to Evaluate Your Relationship with Alcohol: A Real Talk Guide
Heather Herron Heather Herron

How to Evaluate Your Relationship with Alcohol: A Real Talk Guide

Ever wondered whether alcohol is truly serving you—or simply becoming part of your routine? This real-talk guide explores common signs that it may be time to reevaluate your relationship with alcohol, from social drinking and stress coping to habits that may be affecting your sleep, relationships, finances, or overall well-being. Learn how mindful choices, self-reflection, and support can help you create a healthier, more intentional relationship with alcohol.

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“It’s dangerous (an unethical!) to go alone!” - A Guide to Picking a Clinical Supervisor
Heather Herron Heather Herron

“It’s dangerous (an unethical!) to go alone!” - A Guide to Picking a Clinical Supervisor

Choosing a clinical supervisor is about more than checking a box for licensure—it’s about finding someone who can support your growth as a clinician. From credentials and expertise to communication style, ethics, availability, and professional goals, this guide explores what to consider when choosing a supervisor who can help you navigate the challenges of clinical work and build the career you envision.

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Hot Take: The Internet Can’t Be Your Therapist
Heather Herron Heather Herron

Hot Take: The Internet Can’t Be Your Therapist

The internet can be a helpful place to find information, but can a TikTok, Google search, or viral “mental health expert” really replace therapy? This candid take explores the limits of online advice, the value of personalized professional support, and why your mental health deserves more than a one-size-fits-all answer from an algorithm.

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Finding Your Perfect Therapist Match: A No-Stress Guide
Heather Herron Heather Herron

Finding Your Perfect Therapist Match: A No-Stress Guide

Finding the right therapist doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. From personality and communication style to specialties, therapy approaches, cost, and practical considerations, there’s a lot to think about when choosing someone to work with. This guide breaks down what to look for, questions to ask, and why finding the right fit can make all the difference in your therapy experience.

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Stress vs Anxiety: Cracking the Code of Inner Turmoil
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Stress vs Anxiety: Cracking the Code of Inner Turmoil

Stress and anxiety can feel very similar, but they aren’t always the same thing. Learn how to recognize the differences, understand how modern life can contribute to both, and identify when persistent worry or stress may be affecting your everyday life. This post offers a closer look at common signs and practical ways to better manage what you’re experiencing.

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5 Signs You Need Therapy

5 Signs You Need Therapy

Wondering if therapy might be right for you? From feeling constantly overwhelmed to struggling with relationships, anxiety, unhealthy coping habits, or losing interest in things you once loved, there are signs that it may be time to reach out. Explore five common signs that therapy could help you feel more supported, grounded, and connected to your life.

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Are You Feeling Burned Out? Let's Talk About It
Heather Herron Heather Herron

Are You Feeling Burned Out? Let's Talk About It

Feeling drained, unmotivated, or like you’re constantly running on empty? Burnout can affect more than just your work—it can impact your relationships, routines, and overall well-being. Explore the different types of burnout, recognize the signs, and learn practical ways to start creating more balance and space for yourself.

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